Context 2 of 5 Family isolation, divorce, and out-of-home placement

Social Contexts

Isolation, separation and out-of-home care — family change as an ordinary modern experience rather than an exception.

Single-parent families Blended families Social isolation Separation and divorce Out-of-home care
An empty swing set in a suburban playground, ringed by autumn trees.
47,216
divorces granted in Australia in 2024, with almost half involving dependent childrenABS (2025)
8% + 4%
of couple families with dependent children are step-families, plus a further 4% blended familiesAIFS (2023)
53%
had weekly face-to-face contact with family or friends outside the household in 2025, down from 68% in 2019ABS (2026)
10,000
children followed since 2004 by Growing Up in Australia, the national longitudinal evidence baseDSS (n.d.)
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Understanding the Context

Social contexts for early childhood include social or geographic isolation, and divorce or separation of parents, as well as children in out-of-home care (OOHC). Isolation can occur for single-parent families following the breakdown of a relationship and the loss of a network of social support, extended families or geographic communities, especially when moving to a new area. In the social context of blended families, children develop new relationships with step-parents and step-siblings, and two sets of extended family. They also learn to cope with shared custody between two homes.

Early childhood education is centrally placed within this context because family systems theory (Minuchin, 1974) views the family as a connected system whereby a change in one relationship impacts on the others, as well as the child's roles, boundaries and routines. As indicated by Grace et al. (2022), Australian early childhood services are increasingly having to depart from the notion of one fixed family model and develop practice that is flexible to children's actual, evolving family contexts. Social capital theory (Putnam, 2000) also accounts for the impact of isolation on a family's ability to utilise informal support networks that usually help to buffer against stress.

This context in Australia is significant, but is changing. There are also 8% of couple families with dependent children who are step-families and another 4% who are blended families (Australian Institute of Family Studies [AIFS], 2023). Separation is still widespread: in Australia, 47,216 divorces were issued in 2024 (Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2025), and almost half of divorces have dependent children, so family disruption is a normal, not an uncommon, modern experience. The Growing Up in Australia: The Longitudinal Study of Australian Children (LSAC) is Australia's national longitudinal evidence base to understand these transitions, following approximately 10,000 children and their families since 2004, with a focus on children's developmental pathways and the impact of family change over time (Department of Social Services [DSS], n.d.).

Isolation has not increased, just changed. In the previous survey (ABS, 2025), weekly face-to-face contact with family or friends outside the household was 53%, which was still below pre-pandemic levels five years ago (68% in 2019). Trust has also been declining: in 2025, 50% of Australians said they were trusted by most people, while the proportion of those who said this was true dropped from 61% in 2020 (ABS, 2026) and from 79% in 2020 to 66% in the healthcare and justice systems (ABS, 2026). This decline in trust in the Federal Government in particular was echoed in the loss of trust in institutions and interpersonal relationships, and had a similar effect on the informal support networks that families, especially newly single parents, rely on in times of stress (O'Donnell, Falkiner & Szachna, 2026).

Minuchin (1974) — Family systems theory — a change in one relationship reshapes the others Putnam (2000) — Social capital — isolation strips out the informal networks that buffer stress
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Impact on Children and Families

Children's sense of security, routine and stability in their relationships is impacted when they experience social isolation or changes in their families. Children who have experienced a single-parent home may experience disrupted routines, less time with one parent and less time or energy of the carer for social and community involvement due to sole parenting. The developmental task of attachment to new caring adults and new sibling relationships can create some confusion, loyalty issues or behaviour change in the early years for those who enter into blended families. Children in OOHC are highly likely to have a history of disrupted attachment and placement instability, which are both strongly correlated with the risk of developmental delay and the need for trauma-informed support (National Mental Health Commission [NMHC], 2021). Early childhood services need to be ready for the changing family composition and pick-up situations, as well as for the emotional burden that families may carry over these changes.

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Social Policy and Australian Responses

The Family Law Amendment Act 2023 introduced a new presumption of equal shared parental responsibility to Australia's family law system, and shifted the focus to the best interests of the child, which is relevant to the interpretation of 'custody' and 'pick-up' arrangements in early childhood services. Children's exposure to conflict is minimised due to the availability of free dispute-resolution and parenting-plan information services at Family Relationship Centres funded nationally. Safe and Supported: National Framework for Protecting Australia's Children 2021–2031 provides the broader policy guidance, including a focus on keeping families connected and together and on cultural connections, particularly for First Nations children in care (Australian Human Rights Commission, 2026).

Such policies have an impact on early childhood practice through the need to have clear and accurate documentation of responsibilities and work sensitively with children experiencing complex family transitions. State-based child protection legislation, like the NSW Children and Young Persons (Care and Protection) Act 1998, also has provisions for out-of-home care to report issues affecting children in care, which means that specific staff training is required on the statutory obligations. Such changes to the law impact on ECEC practice by requiring services to keep careful records of parental responsibility, and to ensure that two copies of any communications are sent to both parents to prevent excluding parents who are not living in the service.

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Strategies for Practice

Grace et al. (2022) stress the importance of flexible practice that can account for children's real-life, evolving family situations. The following five evidence-informed resilience strategies aid children and families going through social isolation, separation, and care transition:

Duplicate communications to both households

Newsletters, portfolios, and reminders sent to both parents to ensure neither feels left out of their child's learning journey.

Predictable routines and transitions

Visual schedules and consistent goodbye routines make children feel safe despite changes in their home life.

Books and circle time to coach emotions

Provide language that enables children to describe family changes, losses, and new relationships.

Confidential, separate meetings where there is conflict

Do not put the child in the middle of conversations between their parents.

Family conferencing that connects isolated families

Arrange playgroups or parent morning tea that helps establish new social relations for isolated single parents.

All in all, these strategies increase family resilience by ensuring protective elements, such as routines, relationships, and non-judgmental support, in times of disruption.

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Community and Professional Partnerships

These partner agencies work together with ECEC services using referral systems and joint planning meetings for children in care, and staff training about trauma-informed and family-transition sensitive practice.

Relationships Australia
Counselling and Family Relationship Centres.
Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia
Court processes and parenting orders.
Life Without Barriers
Out-of-home care services and foster or kinship carer supports.
Parentline (statewide agencies)
Telephone parenting support.
Playgroup Australia
Building community connections for isolated families.
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Resources for Educators and Children

These educator resources give practitioners a shared language for family change and a practical basis for supporting children through transitions.

  • Raising Children Network
    Separation and step-family guides.
  • Emerging Minds
    Attachment information for children in care.
  • Australian Institute of Family Studies
    CFCA practice resources.
  • Australian Childhood Foundation
    Therapeutic care training.
  • Two Homes
    Claire Masurel — comfort about love across two households.
  • Why Do Families Change?
    Jillian Roberts — explaining separation to young children.
  • The Invisible String
    Patrice Karst — permanent connection across distance.
  • Just the Way We Are
    Claire Robertson — the diversity of family structures.
  • Bluey (ABC)
    Family relationships modelled warmly and realistically.
  • Play School
    Representation of many different family structures.
  • Sesame Street toolkits
    Resources for children experiencing family change.
  • Emerging Minds animation
    Guidance on supporting children through parental separation.

Altogether, these sources provide children with appropriate language about family change processes, while giving educators a common language to build empathy and reduce stigmatisation.

Figures

Figure 2a. Weekly face-to-face contact collapsed during the pandemic and remains well below 2019 levels five years on, despite partial recovery (ABS, 2026).
Figure 2b. Institutional trust, an important indicator of social cohesion, showed a general downward trend during much of 2022–2025 and a partial recovery in 2025 (O'Donnell et al., 2026).